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Old 12-14-2007, 06:29 PM
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Unhappy Girl Problems

I think this is something most of us dudes relate to. I recently split up with my girlfriend and it feels bad man, it feels really bad, but I think it was for the best. The problem is I can't stop thinking about it. Any Ideas what to do?
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Old 12-14-2007, 06:47 PM
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Any combination of the following may help:
Remember the good times.
Find another.
Start drinking (If of age).


What makes you think it was for the best?

(btw: sorry, dude)
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Old 12-14-2007, 07:20 PM
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Thanks bro, I think that if we continued our relationship it would just keep on hurting each other, we started losing respect and been a**holes with each other. Not Physical though. And we were going out for almost 4 years now. Once again Thanks.
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trust me, it works
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Old 12-15-2007, 12:32 AM
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Z has blunt but sound advice.

Im goin thru the same ****...cept more dramatic cause my x decided she wanted to stay best friends....then she hated me...then she shows up at my house...then later that night she hates me.....and now she bitchs at me after i havent talked to her for over a month.

Anyways...what you should do bro is mourn and grieve...cause u have apparently lost somthing worth being upset over. Cherish the fact that you have made an impact on someones life to the point of love. And that is a strong acomplishment. Things are never truly at an end when you guys are older more mature and ready for it (not saying your immature but you understand) there is a possibility that what once failed will flourish.

It sucks and im sorry you hafto go thru it. Dont pretend like you are okay when you are not, act in accordance to your emotions but at the same time do your best to attend to your own personal happiness.

Good luck bro things will be okay in the end, and if they arnt okay now you should keep ur chin up cause that just means its not the end yet!
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Old 12-15-2007, 02:16 AM
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Sorry to hear that there is drama in your life, but you DID say you thought it was for the best. So, congratulations for taking steps and following through with a decision that you think was for the best.

If you THINK it was for the best, chances are it was; and is.

Here's my two cents, for whatever it's worth:

Focus on the memories of the good times you two shared. You will always have those memories, even if you never see this person again. Provided you focus on the good ones, then each time you think of her, good memories and happy emotions should be the dominant force accompanying the thought.

Sadness has it's place, but forget regret and depression - they don't really do much good (at least in my experience, which is why I've expunged them from my repertoire of emotion and action!). Just take the sadness with the knowledge that you have those good memories, and that YOU made the decision that it WAS for the best - trust that, and let it be.

It takes practice, but you'll get through this - and you know you will, it just sucks "at the moment."

Strength to ya, bro.
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Old 12-15-2007, 08:40 AM
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Thanks Bro's, I got better advice from you guys than from most of "my real friends" it really means something to me that all of you took the time to answer to this post. And yeah it sucks how it feels but I guess it was just meant to happen. Lmao Z, Porn uh...... he he he. Anyway thank you all again, I feel a little better now.
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Oh well... You should remember then that it was for the better... Imagine what had happened if it was going on like it did. Maybe this can cheer you up a bit... I hope.
Oh and btw try to distract yourself, go to some parties or something. It's christmas and in a few days it's sylvester! Don't let it spoil that time. This surely is hard but just leave it as it is, maybe it gets better after a while and who knows, you might get together again...
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